I have an eclectic group of friends who come in a variety of political persuasions. I don’t discuss politics on my blog too often. Today is an exception. My philosophy has always been one of respecting the opinions of others even when they radically differ from my own – an “agreeing to disagree” kind of view. The last few weeks has brought out the nasty in so many people! I’m all for passion in your convictions. I understand that emotions on both sides have been running high. I felt the urgency and the hesitation concerning the Supreme Court nominee. What has pushed me, and not over the edge but farther to the left, has been the assertion that because something happened a long time ago, it shouldn’t count. That kind of thinking is all kinds of wrong. If I murdered someone and wasn’t arrested, tried, convicted, and punished then it wouldn’t count against me if 30 years has passed? I think not. Justice demands an accounting. The priests that molested children in the 1950s, 1960s, 1970s, 1980s should get a pass and not face their comeuppance? I think not. Some crimes require righteous outrage. And rape and attempted rape are the kind of crimes that cry out for redress. The wounds inflicted on the mind and soul (or for those less religiously inclined the psyche) of victims of sexual assault never really go away – they may heal but there is always an ugly, angry scar that they carry. The injuries for the most part are hidden, just like the crime. Too often there is a lack of belief, a refusal to grant credibility, and an insistence that the victim somehow brought this on themselves. The culture of placing all the blame on the victim effectively silences the victim and absolves the perpetrator of any guilt or responsibility. This is wrong. I believe we need to do better. It isn’t about blaming boys for having testosterone coursing through their bloodstream any more than it is the fault of girls for being attractive. What it boils down to is personal integrity – or the lack thereof. And what I want in a judge that sits on the highest court in our country (other than a functioning brain) is personal integrity. Brett Kavanaugh may be a Yale graduate and a sitting judge in the appellate court (which necessitates higher brain function) but I posit his moral compass is broken. I think Brett Kavanaugh’s attempt to sidestep the questions, turn the tables, and conveniently refuse to address the issues raised during his Senate hearing was arrogant, flippant and downright disrespectful. I personally think that if he doesn’t know that “boffing” is not the same as burping he can’t possibly be smart enough to be a Supreme Court Justice. Really, I’m probably more naive about these terms than most and even I know that one! His getting emotional when reminiscing about high school chums and holidays with his family only highlighted the presence of a double standard. Any woman who exhibited the same tearful demeanor would have been denounced as unsuitable due to a weak and sentimental disposition – obviously not cut out for the Supreme Court. And it makes me angry. Angry that the FBI investigation was rushed. Angry that it was a sham. Angry that the Senate has put partisan politics ahead of due process and the will of the majority of Americans (last time I checked women aged 16 or older made up 58% of the work force). I’m bringing my anger to the ballot box. My vote will go to the opponent of any of the politicians voting to confirm Mr. Kavanaugh. Trump has his court justice but I think he will soon become a President without a majority.
You speak for me, as well. I am utterly disgusted.
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Thanks! I’m not certain of the future but I am trying to maintain a sense of hope…
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I agree completely — I was angry not about the excuse of past bad behavior, but also about the current attitude towards women, and especially towards the Senators running the hearing. I.hope you’re right that 45 will soon be a President without a majority!
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I think my mother is vowing to engage in activism until this presidency ends…
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Good for her! It’s completely appropriate, and a positive activity! Tonight’s news sounded really hopeful, with projection of up to 30 seats in the House changing — even if the Senate doesn’t change, that will help!
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I would love to see the senate flipped.
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So would I, but if that doesn’t happen, flipping the House would be a real accomplishment anyway!
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Yes it would! I’m hoping…
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Good afternoon 🙂
I respect you too much to get into an argument, but I have a different view. ❤
To me the 'left' is not right, but wrong.
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I respect your opinion and though I do not share it, you are free to hold a differing view. The diversity of point of view is a strength of our country.
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45 is already a president without a majority–he did not win the popular vote in 2016. It is much harder to oust a Supreme Court justice from the bench than not put him there in the first place. A full FBI investigation was warranted; thwarting it didn’t exonerate Kavanaugh, it only made him look guiltier. If I were a sexual assault victim, how would I feel about coming forward after the way Dr. Blasey-Ford has been dismissed, mocked, and threatened? Grab ’em by the midterms… VOTE on November 6. 🙂
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Oh yes! I will be voting!
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Vote by mail ballors (absentee ballots) are supposed to be in the mail in the next few days — I’ll vote as soon as mine arrives!
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I just got mine a couple days ago… I’m going to complete it this weekend!
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I rarely post or comment about my political beliefs..Maybe have once or twice. I’m so grateful that we live in a country that allows us to vote our conscious and vote our beliefs. 😉 Well said and written post.
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Thanks for the compliment! I lament the loss of civility in political discourse.
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