I had a wonderful vacation in Florida with my sisters. The weather was typical of March. We had a day of 78F followed by a day of 56F. It rained and then was sunny. It was clear then foggy. But the ocean was right there and the beach was snow white. The sand was soft – so very soft compared to the sand at the Indiana Dunes. I was loath to return but with Sparky waiting for me I came home (even if he kept sending me photos of snow).
I can hear you asking how the title ties into this post so I’ll do a little show and tell. First the show:
The pictures above were taken 2 days after the injury so not as red as initially.
This one was 9 days later. The hand actually looked worse instead of better!
As you can see I had some nasty bruising on my hand, elbow and upper arm and there was more bruising that was a little higher up… It was on the first leg of my trip home. The flight was delayed due to thunderstorms. We boarded by walking across the tarmac and up a flight of very steep and narrow stairs in a torrential downpour. They were sending us across one at a time so that no one had to stand in the rain waiting to board. I started and the woman after me literally sprinted past me midway to the plane. She disappeared into the plane and I hauled my suitcase and soggy self aboard. I managed the suitcase into the overhead and took my seat. I had just buckled my seatbelt when the running woman came up the aisle searching for a spot for her luggage. I saw movement in my peripheral vision and instinctively threw my arm up to protect my head. She hit my hand with the wheel on her suitcase (note the semi-circular mark on the back of my hand) and then grazed my elbow and upper arm. It hurt but I didn’t see any injury (until later). Instead of apologizing for hitting me or asking if I was okay, she scowled at me as if I had done something to her. Anyway, karma is never kind. She was seated next to a person who was vomiting violently and loudly (in defense, several passengers had stomach upset because the flight was very very turbulent) and then she fell down a flight of stairs at the Orlando airport because she was in too much of a hurry to take the elevator since the down escalator was out of order…
The trip back was nearly all day – arriving at the Pensacola airport at 10:00 AM for my 12:10 PM flight. I didn’t have any lunch. We arrived late in Orlando and my flight was boarding as I approached the gate. That flight was full of screaming and crying kids as they left “the happiest place on earth”. Obviously the boundaries for happy do not extend to the airport! Anyway, they gave me a bag of pretzels (8 mini ones that were so very tiny) and a can of cranberry cocktail. That was lunch at 3:40 PM (whatever time that really is since I kept crossing time zones and with the time change that my watch hadn’t registered). Arriving in Chicago I managed to get all my steps in for the day since I walked from one end of the airport to the other. I bought a nearly inedible pizza because it was the only place without an hour wait for a $15 hamburger. After a short and bumpy commuter flight, Sparky met me at the airport. I was finally in my own home at 11:00 PM. There is no place like home!
Gosh some people are so inconsiderate. Rude! Hope she got the full enjoyment of her neighbour’s company.
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I tried not to revel in her discomfort. Some folks make their own problems…
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I like that – might even lead to a second part of your story imagining things from her perspective, e.g. travelling with some insult she had not come to terms with… thanks for writing
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That sounds painful. I’m all for empathy and sympathy but trying to imagine her psychological health is not an exercise I want to undertake…
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fair enough but that’s not quite what I meant anyway. Go Muri go –
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Thanks!
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btw Muri, do your read German?
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No, but my son minored in German in college and he translated it to keep in practice… and when he’s not around I use Google Translate.
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wow – I have used google translate for farsi once to speak with the other of someone in prison – and it was pretty tricky to trust it – I ended up translating it twice back and forth until it seemed to make any sense, so I am glad
if my writing made any sense.
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Yes, it made sense so a single translate worked fine (plus son#1’s help)!
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good job 🙂
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btw – it was mother there – should have said/typed it too 🙄
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Hehe! still made sense.
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I cringe at that journey’s challenges. So thankful that you are safe at home as well. Gentle huggerz.
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Thanks Dodi! It was a long and tiring trip home… but home is a happy place so I’m glad to have arrived!
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That sounds like a trying day. It seems to me each year people get ruder. When people do something wrong out on the road they lash out at us with the finger or on the cb for being in the way.
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Drivers certainly are aggressive – more so now than ever! Even driving in the city there are too many who speed and disregard stop signs and stop lights. Defensive driving is a necessary skill!
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Yes no one knows how to stop at a stop sign or even yeild.
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Yep. I got honked at because I stopped in a parking lot to let a woman back out. The guy behind me was laying on his horn – I suppose he was angry that he didn’t drive Chitty-Chitty-Bang-Bang to the store!
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Probably. People are just so inpatient ans rude. I try to be better than the average person on driving and being rude while driving.
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❤ !
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People have become more and more selfish these days! I don’t miss all the travel that I did as part of my job!
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I too am glad the work travel that I did is a thing of the past! I generally enjoyed myself but air travel got ton more complicated after 9/11. I remember having to figure out how to put a poster up without tacks since they weren’t allowed on the plane!
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Oh, my! I thought this kind of behaviour was more common in our side of the world. But I think horrors pop up everywhere.
Take care, Val.
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Thanks Punam. I’m healing and have turned an odd shade of green and gold with an undertone of violet. Rude behavior is universal – though I suspect the root causes are myriad!
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Good to know you are healing. I agree, there is no accounting for rudeness.
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It is so pervasive. 😦
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Glad I don’t fly any more.
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Flying isn’t very fun but it does get you from one place to another fairly quickly if you can get a direct flight!
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oh my! travel hell! glad you are safely home and healing.
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It was pretty awful. I didn’t dwell on the unhappy children. There were 2 young boys with Aladdin light up swords seated behind me who thought it would be a good idea to sword fight. Their father took the swords away resulting in a 20 minute double tantrum. hehe! I can’t imagine why their parents thought it would be a good idea to purchase them in the first place let alone carry them aboard the plane!!
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ack! Some of my grandkids
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throw or used to throw amazing tantrums! 🤦🏻♀️
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Hehe! My parents never put up with that stuff. Saw a woman take her tantrum throwing child out of the store without completing her shopping. As she was leaving she told her daughter, “If you can’t stop this nonsense I am taking you home.” We learned early to “stop crying or I’ll give you something to cry about”. I suppose that isn’t an option on an airplane (though I was tempted)!
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I wonder why she was traveling? sounds like she might have had a sad back story… But what a nightmare for you!
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My interaction was thankfully brief. I wonder if she made it to her destination without hurting anyone else of causing herself any additional injuries…
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I’m usually repentant after feeling schadenfreude at someone’s misfortune who appears to be deserving of it, but only after reveling in it until it’s lost its luster.
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hehe! Yes Judy that schadenfreude is an initial delight – like when someone speeds past you and cuts you off only to see them pulled over by the police. However it is Lent and I’m really trying to be nice to everyone, including those who are not nice to me… Still I didn’t feel compelled to stop and offer any assistance.
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I think you are a saint to have kept quiet when you got whacked. I guess that too goes toward making this trip something you’ll never forget.
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It is Lent and I’m non-confrontational. I tried very hard not to take any pleasure in her discomforts that followed. Still it was difficult not to think that there is justice in the world.
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😊
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After that I should say so! (K)
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Thanks! It was quite the journey…
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That sounds painful.
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It looks worse than it feels – except when I put on gloves…
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Oh Val! I’m so sorry! I’m so glad you’re home. I had a similar experience in January. But no bruising. I’ll never understand inconsiderate and rude people.
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Me either. Seems the virtue of patience has evaporated!
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💛🤗
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❤
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Oh dear, some people really are so rude….and oh, well maybe she is going through something that day but…nevertheless, she could have injured you or something…at least twas a relief knowing, you are okay Val.
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Thanks Mich! I try to cut people some slack because you never know what they are going through… still the inconsiderate seem to take that as a green light to continue to cut a swath of destruction…
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Very rude from her and flying company is also responsible for that, it happened inside of plane as I understand good. So good is to be at home after a lot of pain ❤️🏡
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Yes, she was rude and it did happen inside the plane but there really isn’t anything that can be done. Seems rudeness isn’t against the law! I decided to say a prayer for her and one for me too since I needed to let go and forgive… The bruise is almost gone, just a little yellow green and brown spot that is fading fast… 🙂
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I also had a bed rude experience when I was traveling at May 2020. I was alone with a small dog so no wickness of that. I get a small heart problem, heart problem, so they returned a plane and I called a taxi, went to family. I was just resting and tried to forget but I didn’t forgived because I can not be a Saint, just I said to myself “she is demon, let it go, let it go”. I am glad that You are better, this is new world, where is unpoliteness rule at the moment. Some people expect to be unpolite, some do not. We all are called to choose ❤️🌹
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Thanks dear. The world is often hurtful but we are called to rise above the meanness and reach for what is purer, better, kinder… Glad the heart problem wasn’t serious!
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We reap what we sow. I’m sorry you got injured and sorry she didn’t even bother to apologize.
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Me too but I’m almost all healed. I hope she can slow down and not careen through life…
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Uugghh that was so rude. It angers me so much when people don’t have travel manners. Hope you are healing well Val!!
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Thanks Mimu – I’m almost completely healed – just a faint yellow spot is all that’s left…
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That will heal very soon too! Vacation souvenirs
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Youch, Val! I hope you are all healed now?
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Thanks Susi! I’m all better – only a faint yellow tint remains (and you can barely see it)!
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Glad to hear it, Val!
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I got better but I’m guessing the impatient woman hasn’t improved….
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lol Do we ever? 😉
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I like to think so!
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🙂
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Wow! How incredibly rude. I’m surprised the flight attendants didn’t check on you and say something to her. Glad you got home relatively safely.
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I don’t think the flight attendants saw it… They were pretty busy. But I think karma caught up with her and was far more effective than what I or one of the flight attendants could have done!
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Goodness! Your plane flights were like my bus rides-one to another, with scant time for thinking, much less eating. The thoughtful attendant at the San Antonio bus station cafe fixed me an extra large breakfast sandwich, knowing that it would be the only meal I’d get until night time. I didn’t encounter any aggressive co-passengers, but it was gratifying to read that she got hers.
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I never thought to call her out on her behavior. But the cosmos set things to right… I only traveled long distance once on a bus. It was fairly uncomfortable as the AC wasn’t working sufficiently and there were too many other passengers who had been traveling too long!
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