This weeks Poet of the Week for the W3 poetry prompt is Michelle Ayon Navajas. Her prompt on David’s blog The Skeptic’s Kaddish is to take out your handkerchief. During the Renaissance period, a handkerchief was considered a powerful symbol of women. Giving this item to a woman meant true love, honesty, commitment, and righteousness. If by chance you don’t have a handkerchief, explore your creative side and imagine you are holding one right now. Write an ode to your handkerchief and make it sound like a love ode.
I call myself modern I’m not prone to weeping
Yet I hold hankies close to my heart for their safe keeping
The first is thin as tissue, lilac and pressed
Trifold clipped when to the nines my mom’s mother dressed
Still indented from the brooch that held it to her breast
The next has dainty needlework in each lacy corner
Dad’s mom tuck’d it in her sleeve like the one who borne her
Another is less fancy made of coarser cloth
It bears a tiny hole sign of damage from a moth
Great grandma’s – present when she pledged her troth
All these ladies hankies are precious in my mind
A history of my grandmas separate and yet combined
But the most valuable is not a pretty square
It is my father’s handkerchief a big cotton affair
When I remember him that handkerchief is there
Prone to nosebleeds he always carried two
Mother tried to keep them white but no matter what she’d do
They’d end up yellow with brown blotchy stains
Soaked and bleached even now every stain remains
When opened wide all hurts it could contain
It wiped noses, scraped knees and blood that was seeping
And now holding it with love, I’m once more weeping
Such a moving poem Val.
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Thanks much Sadje! I have a few very special handkerchiefs. It seems every lady had to have some for every occasion and to match her outfits…
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You’re most welcome 🙏🏼
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Aww! Val, such a precious write! Love it. ❤️❤️
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Thank-you Punam! I did get a little sentimental writing it…
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It is good to get sentimental sometimes. You are so welcome. ❤️
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Punam it was a very good prompt!
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I agree completely. I really enjoyed writing for it.
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Oh the last line is beautiful 🥰
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Thanks Sangeetha! I’m pleased that the last line touched you!
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Beautiful.
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Thanks tons Andy!
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You’re welcome.
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🙂
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I still have my mother’s hanky collection and my mother-in-law’s, as well as my own(from when I was a girl). I wonder if anyone will care about them after I’m gone?
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Gracia I’m betting your daughters and granddaughters will treasure them. I’m guessing they’ll select the prettiest and frame them or do what my mother did – and sew them onto the fronts of throw pillows. It really “fancied up” her bed and the chairs in the living room!
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I hope they will. Some of them are real pretty.
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Perhaps you need to plant that idea… ❤
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You know Val, when I worked, I had the most beautifully embroidered handkerchiefs from all over the world. I had them with me for decades and used them. I have only a few left now. I see them occasionally in one of the drawers, and hold them to my face to enjoy the lingering fragrance and marvel at the embroidery.
What a neat post! Thank you.
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I’m thrilled I could take you on a stroll down memory lane! My grandma Tena had lots of hankies – many of them with violets or lilacs printed or embroidered on them. My other grandmother had much fancier ones – with lace and ribbons…
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I loved this poem more than any others you’ve written before. I also have memories of hand crocheted trimmed hankies that my stepmother’s mother (known as Bubba) made for her and her sister. The love that was hooked into those hankies soaks my mind in quiet reverie…
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Dodi I’m so pleased that this poem has caught your heart! The one I have of my mother’s mother has hand crocheted lace as well. It is cotton and she always had it starched and pressed (it wasn’t for runny noses) and would have it pinned on her Sunday dress behind a fancy brooch (the one I remember best was a big gold circle of vines with an opal at one edge)… So many memories in such a tiny square of fabric!
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This is lovely Val – my dad always had a handkerchief, they don’t seem to be used anymore, victim of the throwaway society I suppose ❤
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Absolutely. My father resisted the facial tissue. He claimed that it was too wimpy for his needs! When he died we all took a couple of his handkerchiefs. My mother kept most of them – slept with one under her pillow for many years…
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That is so sweet, I’m sure it gave her comfort ❤️
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It did…
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Thanks Martha!
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So lovely Val.
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Glad you liked it Di!
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very much.
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Thanks!!
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When I was a child my cousin would post to me for my birthday each year a hanky in a card. I thought it so special and would wait by the letterbox each year awaiting its delivery.
Great poem, Muri:)
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What a wonderful gift! I hope you’ve kept some or all of them. I’m tickled that this poem brought to mind a happy memory!!
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Depression born parents, Muri, so everything was well used. As it should be. The memories are still there and that’s what counts.
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Absolutely. My mother was born in that era too. Which is why she kept the plastic bags from cereal boxes… they were heavy duty and she couldn’t just toss them! And jars always did double duty. Funny how her frugality became mine!
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Ditto
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I love handkerchiefs always have and carried one when I got married, still have it. Every time a gift for Christmas was needed off to Woolworth for a box of hankies. Try that now days.
Love the poem.
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Bonnie I’m delighted that you like this poem! I remember having to get a birthday present and after picking out a toy, my mother insisted I also include a package of hankies – they were monogrammed with her first initial – I thought they looked very elegant! My father passed in 2008 and it was nearly impossible to find handkerchiefs at Christmas then! I can’t imagine trying to find them now (although they probably exist online…).
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Amazon has some and I’m going to order some. I have an eye that likes to run.
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Oh! I’m glad you found some. I hope they are good quality and not scratchy!
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I have one of my father’s handkerchiefs too. (K)
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❤ it brings back so many memories…
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Well penned
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Thanks bunches!
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Ah, nostalgia strikes again. We may be the last generation that remembers hankies. My grandma’s had lovely tatted edges. Does anyone still to tatting?
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I think so but only as a hobby… You can still buy the thread but I’ve never seen any of the shuttles at the fabric store. One of the hankies with the tatted edges must come from an estate sale.
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What a lovely share of memories of family members. Nicely done!
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Thanks! My mother’s birthday is coming up and I do get a little nostalgic…
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This is just pure beauty Val. You took us back in time when we too got our own first hanky given by our moms. I love how you narrated the story up until today.
Sadly, though in this day and age we seldom see young people use hanky. They’d rather use the ready to throw tissue paper which actually adds up to our current environmental problems.
Thank you so much Val.
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Mich I’m so pleased that you really liked this one. I took a little trip into my memories – it was a great prompt!! It is so very true that the younger generations view the hanky as obsolete and opt for a disposable…
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Muri ~ this is so personal and emotional… how beautiful!
Much love,
David
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Many thanks David. This prompt was a good one and it did get the muse worked up!
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Aww, this is a lovely tribute, Muri. 🙂
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Thanks tons! I’m so happy you liked it!
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You are welcome, Muri. 🙂
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Muri ~ I just wanna let you know that this week’s W3 prompt, hosted by our beloved Punam Sharma, is now live:
Enjoy ❤
David
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I’m on it!!
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Very nice poem, Muri. Considering that I use handkerchiefs only to dry my glassed when I clean them, I have a lot of handkerchief memories, including my mom tying one around my neck after an application of Vick’s VapoRub so my pajamas wouldn’t get too greasy and a grade school classmate who was never without one (she had asthma, I think, and coughed a lot into her handkerchief). I wrote an essay in a college creative writing course about how the Murder on the Orient Express would have turned out differently if it were the days of tissues. Then my mom had a box of old handkerchiefs (her mom’s and her own from when she was younger) that a friend turned into a fabric wall hanging, accented with various edgings and buttons.
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Stephanie thanks! I’m tickled you liked the poem. The wall hanging is a brilliant idea! I’ll have to hold onto that one.
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Wow..moving and beautiful.
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Thank-you Elizabeth! I’m pleased you thought so!
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I’m told, by other Baby Boomers, though not by any of the younger generations, that handkerchiefs are to go the way of the dodo. I reject that notion, and so do the kids. Paper tissues are seen as far more wasteful, among Millennials, Gen Z and Alphas.
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Handkerchiefs as a practical item or as an adornment will always be around… I think that embracing the reduction of waste is going to bring a resurgence of the humble handkerchief!
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